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		<title>By: Rich</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10181</link>
		<dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 10:48:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Siam.Rick:

Yep. In a lot of the villages you can see changes, and the changes extend to attitudes as well, not just improvements in the quality of life. In the village I visit from time to time, the foreigner population has shot up in the past three years, and to be honest it is easy to understand why. The lifestyle is better than BKK (though the mod-cons are sparse and the entertainment is almost zero), the weather is better than BKK and to be candid, the people are a shed-load more pleasant and honest than in BKK (yes, a generalization, I know, but not untrue for being so).

As far as aI know none of these foreigners believe it is their job to change anything, they are just bringing their own lifestyle and attitudes with them and the Thais generally seem to like them better. So the villages change, and the people change. This is what populations have been doing for millennia, but I&#039;m damn sure this stupid government will think it&#039;s a bad thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Siam.Rick:</p>
<p>Yep. In a lot of the villages you can see changes, and the changes extend to attitudes as well, not just improvements in the quality of life. In the village I visit from time to time, the foreigner population has shot up in the past three years, and to be honest it is easy to understand why. The lifestyle is better than BKK (though the mod-cons are sparse and the entertainment is almost zero), the weather is better than BKK and to be candid, the people are a shed-load more pleasant and honest than in BKK (yes, a generalization, I know, but not untrue for being so).</p>
<p>As far as aI know none of these foreigners believe it is their job to change anything, they are just bringing their own lifestyle and attitudes with them and the Thais generally seem to like them better. So the villages change, and the people change. This is what populations have been doing for millennia, but I&#8217;m damn sure this stupid government will think it&#8217;s a bad thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Siam.Rick</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10180</link>
		<dc:creator>Siam.Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 07:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The study purports to see an emerging pattern of change brought about these marriages. The changes are having a measurable impact on many levels in the local communities and economies, all of which may have regional and national impact.   

Or put another way: foreigners are helping Isaan people overcome their economic and racial status in a country where Northeasterners get scant notice or aid.

I only read BD&#039;s summary and the verbose abstract, but that&#039;s what it looks like to me and it seems worth pursuing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The study purports to see an emerging pattern of change brought about these marriages. The changes are having a measurable impact on many levels in the local communities and economies, all of which may have regional and national impact.   </p>
<p>Or put another way: foreigners are helping Isaan people overcome their economic and racial status in a country where Northeasterners get scant notice or aid.</p>
<p>I only read BD&#8217;s summary and the verbose abstract, but that&#8217;s what it looks like to me and it seems worth pursuing.</p>
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		<title>By: stefan</title>
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		<dc:creator>stefan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 10:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mithran:

I did read the study linked here, so what more do I need to know about what the author was &quot;thinking&quot;? While there is no such kerfuffle about other asians marrying Thais, maybe its more profitable for caucasians with Thai spouses to stay under the radar.

What kind of laws do you think will be implemented on the back of such a study? In reality it means even more laws that penalize both the foreigner and the NE woman and their families. Does anyone for a second believe that the existing laws don&#039;t already loudly reflect the policy makers bias? 

Again, maybe a study on the machinations of  the unholy marriage of lame academia and a subordinate judiciary cemented with a hefty dose of xenophobia, chauvinism and secterianism, such a study might elucidate what&#039;s behind the lawmakers intentions. Unfortunately we know well what the criteria is. I don&#039;t see that  getting better before it gets much worse. Does anyone really believe that bringing an &quot;aberration&quot; into the spotlight will soften the lawmakers stance?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mithran:</p>
<p>I did read the study linked here, so what more do I need to know about what the author was &#8220;thinking&#8221;? While there is no such kerfuffle about other asians marrying Thais, maybe its more profitable for caucasians with Thai spouses to stay under the radar.</p>
<p>What kind of laws do you think will be implemented on the back of such a study? In reality it means even more laws that penalize both the foreigner and the NE woman and their families. Does anyone for a second believe that the existing laws don&#8217;t already loudly reflect the policy makers bias? </p>
<p>Again, maybe a study on the machinations of  the unholy marriage of lame academia and a subordinate judiciary cemented with a hefty dose of xenophobia, chauvinism and secterianism, such a study might elucidate what&#8217;s behind the lawmakers intentions. Unfortunately we know well what the criteria is. I don&#8217;t see that  getting better before it gets much worse. Does anyone really believe that bringing an &#8220;aberration&#8221; into the spotlight will soften the lawmakers stance?</p>
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		<title>By: Mithran</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10105</link>
		<dc:creator>Mithran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:08:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>stefan: How it benefits the NE woman? You mean by trying to understand how the society around her is changing and how she is herself part of that change? No that&#039;s not useful at all. Why bother, or in fact pay any attention to society in the NE? When we set laws that affect a society lets not try and understand it first.

Sorry about the predictable response by the way. I was just surprised to learn you knew the writer&#039;s intentions. But then if you can read minds everything&#039;s predictable, right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>stefan: How it benefits the NE woman? You mean by trying to understand how the society around her is changing and how she is herself part of that change? No that&#8217;s not useful at all. Why bother, or in fact pay any attention to society in the NE? When we set laws that affect a society lets not try and understand it first.</p>
<p>Sorry about the predictable response by the way. I was just surprised to learn you knew the writer&#8217;s intentions. But then if you can read minds everything&#8217;s predictable, right?</p>
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		<title>By: stefan</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10081</link>
		<dc:creator>stefan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 09:25:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Predictable responses, as always piety and academic hegemony are spouted by the righteous - still don&#039;t see where all this benefits the NE woman? I suspect it isnt really about the NE woman and her choices, but about academics finding a convenient subject for a dissertation. Why don&#039;t they do a study on the network monarchy? Now that might actually reveal something useful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Predictable responses, as always piety and academic hegemony are spouted by the righteous &#8211; still don&#8217;t see where all this benefits the NE woman? I suspect it isnt really about the NE woman and her choices, but about academics finding a convenient subject for a dissertation. Why don&#8217;t they do a study on the network monarchy? Now that might actually reveal something useful.</p>
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		<title>By: Hobby</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10078</link>
		<dc:creator>Hobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 07:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;Buddhism has little to offer these days, everything that Buddhism offers is explicable and achievable using plain common-or-garden psychology. Most of what remains is just superstition.&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
That still seems to be slightly more than what the other major religions are offering, IMO. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>&#8220;Buddhism has little to offer these days, everything that Buddhism offers is explicable and achievable using plain common-or-garden psychology. Most of what remains is just superstition.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>That still seems to be slightly more than what the other major religions are offering, IMO. <img src='http://absolutelybangkok.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Chdarat</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10075</link>
		<dc:creator>Chdarat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes on one level that is true Rich. 

A lot of what is called Buddhism is not the religious practice but something that has blended into this bizarre mix of cultural tradition that has very little to do with what Gotama himself intended.

However, strip this off from all this extra packaging and you can still find what the Buddha taught if you care to look for it that is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes on one level that is true Rich. </p>
<p>A lot of what is called Buddhism is not the religious practice but something that has blended into this bizarre mix of cultural tradition that has very little to do with what Gotama himself intended.</p>
<p>However, strip this off from all this extra packaging and you can still find what the Buddha taught if you care to look for it that is.</p>
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		<title>By: Rich</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10072</link>
		<dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Buddhism has little to offer these days, everything that Buddhism offers is explicable and achievable using plain common-or-garden psychology. Most of what remains is just superstition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buddhism has little to offer these days, everything that Buddhism offers is explicable and achievable using plain common-or-garden psychology. Most of what remains is just superstition.</p>
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		<title>By: Mithran</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10070</link>
		<dc:creator>Mithran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>stefan:
&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;(...) scrutinized by people with arguable credentials and duplicitous intention (...)&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
According to the Mahidol website she&#039;s got a PhD in Women&#039;s and Gender Studies from the University of British Columbia. What&#039;s arguable about that? As for &quot;duplicitous intention,&quot; you do actually know what she&#039;s thinking then?

Any anthropologist would be interested in how a minority group affects the culture of a country they&#039;re living in. For example, I am sure many U.K. anthroplogists have studied the interactions and behaviors of Hindu and Muslim communities in the U.K.

And as Chdarat says, God knows enough Western anthropologists feel happy pontificating about Thailand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>stefan:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;(&#8230;) scrutinized by people with arguable credentials and duplicitous intention (&#8230;)&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>According to the Mahidol website she&#8217;s got a PhD in Women&#8217;s and Gender Studies from the University of British Columbia. What&#8217;s arguable about that? As for &#8220;duplicitous intention,&#8221; you do actually know what she&#8217;s thinking then?</p>
<p>Any anthropologist would be interested in how a minority group affects the culture of a country they&#8217;re living in. For example, I am sure many U.K. anthroplogists have studied the interactions and behaviors of Hindu and Muslim communities in the U.K.</p>
<p>And as Chdarat says, God knows enough Western anthropologists feel happy pontificating about Thailand.</p>
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		<title>By: Chdarat</title>
		<link>http://absolutelybangkok.com/phua-farang-demanding-daughter-duty/#comment-10069</link>
		<dc:creator>Chdarat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 01:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes stefan - intention and the Buddha also recommended watching one&#039;s own reaction to clarify why one reacts to certain impingement.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes stefan &#8211; intention and the Buddha also recommended watching one&#8217;s own reaction to clarify why one reacts to certain impingement.</p>
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