Comments on: The Psychology Of Thai Women http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/ Welcome to Bangkok Thailand, Airport, Politics, Food, Nightlife and Thai Culture of the Big Mango! Wed, 20 Jul 2011 22:43:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: SC http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-14992 SC Sun, 29 May 2011 15:07:51 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-14992 One more thing! Don't try and figure it out! You will never understand her mind. You may have a gut feeling and that usually is right, but you will never fully understand this culture unless you are here for years and even then you may not fully get it! Just enjoy and watch your back and your brother inlaw too. One more thing! Don’t try and figure it out! You will never understand her mind. You may have a gut feeling and that usually is right, but you will never fully understand this culture unless you are here for years and even then you may not fully get it! Just enjoy and watch your back and your brother inlaw too.

]]> By: SC http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-14991 SC Sun, 29 May 2011 15:02:15 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-14991 The OP knows what he is talking about!! YOU will never win an argument with a thai lady no matter if she is from the bar or just an ordinary Thai girl. Your best bet is to just let her talk and talk and when she is done, in a short while she will be sweet and nice to you. She will be happy you didn't put up a fight about even something that is a blatant lie. It's just that way here! You need to learn this fast if you want any semblance of a happy life. Not all women are the same. I found this mostly in Los. In the west, you can have a small argument without too much problem but not in Los. She is right, even if she is totally wrong. It is about her "face" Learn this and you will be ok. Or walk away if it is too much for you. If you let her wion, you will win in the long run since she knows she is wrong anyway. The OP knows what he is talking about!! YOU will never win an argument with a thai lady no matter if she is from the bar or just an ordinary Thai girl. Your best bet is to just let her talk and talk and when she is done, in a short while she will be sweet and nice to you. She will be happy you didn’t put up a fight about even something that is a blatant lie. It’s just that way here! You need to learn this fast if you want any semblance of a happy life. Not all women are the same. I found this mostly in Los. In the west, you can have a small argument without too much problem but not in Los. She is right, even if she is totally wrong. It is about her “face” Learn this and you will be ok. Or walk away if it is too much for you. If you let her wion, you will win in the long run since she knows she is wrong anyway.

]]> By: solldly http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-12127 solldly Sat, 19 Jun 2010 16:44:57 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-12127 After reading, i feel like you really know bar girls maybe because you always spend time with bar girls and thought that Thai girls have the same thinking as bar girls. You need to know that they're coming from lower society that you can't compare with all Thai girls. If you have reason you can argue with Thai girls also, I mean with normal Thai girls not bar girls. I accepted that bar girls are act and do like what you says but it depends on how smart you're to find out that it's the true story or not. All women in this world are the same if you make your lady angry ... sure you'll face hell. After reading, i feel like you really know bar girls maybe because you always spend time with bar girls and thought that Thai girls have the same thinking as bar girls. You need to know that they’re coming from lower society that you can’t compare with all Thai girls. If you have reason you can argue with Thai girls also, I mean with normal Thai girls not bar girls.

I accepted that bar girls are act and do like what you says but it depends on how smart you’re to find out that it’s the true story or not.

All women in this world are the same if you make your lady angry … sure you’ll face hell.

]]> By: buzzlightyear http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-10804 buzzlightyear Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:28:13 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-10804 Yea Thai chicks are very sketchy indeed. I know some rich ones and they are cool and stuff but the poor ones are cutthroat. Like he said they always have some excuse for money. New home or what not. And most of them have illegitimate children. Ever heard of a condom. It is there own fault and they will even live with old fat men if they give them money, they have no dignity indeed ... Yea Thai chicks are very sketchy indeed.

I know some rich ones and they are cool and stuff but the poor ones are cutthroat.

Like he said they always have some excuse for money. New home or what not. And most of them have illegitimate children. Ever heard of a condom. It is there own fault and they will even live with old fat men if they give them money, they have no dignity indeed …

]]> By: Linepigen http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-3056 Linepigen Fri, 19 Dec 2008 15:46:05 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-3056 Well ... I'am luk kreung, so not totally without a coherent line of though, apparantly. I love when you wrote: "Thais are, as they are. Especially the women. They need food at an exact time of the day and have to hear the word yes once in a while. If those two basic conditions are not fulfilled, you face hell." - Yes, give me food and let me decide (you know I'm right anyway, no point in arguing). However, is this not the case with most women? If you just let a Western girl eat and say yes to some of the stuff she suggests, does she not behave in the same way? My advise: All women are easy to be around when they're not hungry, not tired, are not having their period or someone denying them what they want. Easy breezy. Well … I’am luk kreung, so not totally without a coherent line of though, apparantly.

I love when you wrote: “Thais are, as they are. Especially the women. They need food at an exact time of the day and have to hear the word yes once in a while. If those two basic conditions are not fulfilled, you face hell.” – Yes, give me food and let me decide (you know I’m right anyway, no point in arguing).

However, is this not the case with most women? If you just let a Western girl eat and say yes to some of the stuff she suggests, does she not behave in the same way?

My advise: All women are easy to be around when they’re not hungry, not tired, are not having their period or someone denying them what they want.

Easy breezy.

]]> By: RGK http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-2158 RGK Wed, 22 Oct 2008 03:20:40 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-2158 The biggest problem with this post is it spends too much time talking about bar girls. Forget the bar girls and focus on regular Thai women. The biggest problem with this post is it spends too much time talking about bar girls. Forget the bar girls and focus on regular Thai women.

]]> By: Thaistory http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-283 Thaistory Fri, 18 Jan 2008 16:43:22 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-283 Hmm ... food for thought. Hmm … food for thought.

]]> By: Peter http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-274 Peter Tue, 15 Jan 2008 04:59:49 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-274 Dude - are you writing your biography? Dude – are you writing your biography?

]]> By: BangkokDan http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-267 BangkokDan Fri, 11 Jan 2008 04:13:41 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-267 Agreed, <em>oneditorial</em>. Except: Once in a while you have to raise your tone in this country, otherwise nothing moves. Being polite and tactful all the time equals most often a standstill. <a href="mailto:absolutelyBangkok@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">BangkokDan</a> Agreed, oneditorial.

Except: Once in a while you have to raise your tone in this country, otherwise nothing moves.

Being polite and tactful all the time equals most often a standstill.

BangkokDan

]]> By: oneditorial http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-psychology-of-thai-women/#comment-266 oneditorial Thu, 10 Jan 2008 17:57:50 +0000 http://absolutelybangkok.com/?p=242#comment-266 "Thais for themselves don’t dig to deep into their minds and souls. Which explains why there are hardly any psychologists over here, let alone psychiatrists." In Thailand, in general terms if you go to meet the shrink, you might be deemed weak or mentally unwell. I agree that it is difficult to have a proper argument with Thai people whether men or women. The Thais just have a problem with the tone and way that most Farangs speak to them. It is better to be a bit indirect and tactful. “Thais for themselves don’t dig to deep into their minds and souls. Which explains why there are hardly any psychologists over here, let alone psychiatrists.”

In Thailand, in general terms if you go to meet the shrink, you might be deemed weak or mentally unwell.

I agree that it is difficult to have a proper argument with Thai people whether men or women. The Thais just have a problem with the tone and way that most Farangs speak to them. It is better to be a bit indirect and tactful.

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